She is not a very content baby, but not nearly as fussy as Titus was - but at least we don't have to deal with the projectile vomit and spitting up ALL THE TIME like we did with Titus. She cries when she wants her diaper changed, she cries when she is hungry, she cries when she needs to burp, and she cries when she is tired - and won't quit until she falls asleep. Maybe this is normal?? I guess it is harder in some ways because I feel like I am doing everything wrong. Titus just cried all the time - but it was from the spitting up and he was in pain or something I think. Have any of you seen the Oprah segment where she talks about baby cries?? A lady at church taped it for me, and I have listened to it a few times, but the only one I can consistently pick out is the hunger cry...which I suppose is a good one. Sometimes I can tell she is fussing because she has gas and needs to burp, and sometimes I can tell when she is tired, but overall her cries sound the same to me. I keep trying though!
Titus had a super fussy day a few days ago and ended up spending most of it in his bed because I finally told him that if he was going to throw a fit he was going to go to bed. I was not up to his screaming and fits after having no sleep. I don't know if it worked or not, but it was a new approach I hadn't tried before, and we haven't had a day like that again...but he does still have a few of his 2-year old fits every day...he is a very strong-willed child, and I guess that is paybacks for my own childhood ;)

On an exciting note, Titus now says his name when you ask him what his name is. It is very cute. We are trying to get him to say Damaris' name, but that might take a while :) He is just starting to put words together which is fun...he has only been saying one word here and there even though he knows a lot of words. He is saying "all done" and his first sentence "Where is he/she/it?" when he is trying to find someone or something. You can just see his mind putting things together and realizing more and more.
Titus loves to give kisses...and I tried to get a picture of him giving Damaris a kiss, and this is about the best I could do on my own:


This part is called a "slideout" because a whole section of the trailer actually slides out away from the inside of the camper to make more room inside. It makes it seem SO much bigger and not as crowded. Being slightly claustrophobic, this part really helps my sanity :)

6 comments:
Wow...I'm impressed! That looks like it will be tons of fun!
Michelle, in regards to the baby cries. Only a mother knows best. Trust yourself. You know what Damaris needs. It is tiring. Taylor was very colic and cried endlessly sometimes--so it seemed. It wears on our emotions, but it gets better. We have wonderful moments in between.--and cat naps here and there. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are a great mom-I'm sure of it. Just remember that you have the Lord on your side and He never gives us more than we can handle. Sometimes we jsut need a little reminder. Love you tons and praying for you--rest, peace, and patience:)
ps-I am jealous of your awesome camper! have fun!:)
Wow, that looks like a really nice camper, how fun!! Love seeing all the pics of Titus & Damaris. I love that Stephen took the pic of you and Damaris sleeping, very precious!!
i am not sure if it is still considered camping but i might be wrong. at the very least it is not roughing it which camping should be.
The camper looks amazing and so nice!! It will be much roomer for us if it rains on us again next time we camp!! (wink wink) I, too, believe that you are amazing mother and that you are doing just fine!! She's new to you and it always takes a little time to get used to their cries, needs and wants!! She is such a doll!
I am not trying to push anything on you and I will not be offended at all if you don't even want to try it but my secret to my children has been an amazing book called "Babywise" by Gary Ezzo. It is not a book for every mother because all mothers are different with different perspectives but it has made my life sooooo much easier. The baby stage with my kids was so much easier to handle with this book. I needed it with my personality. You may like it or you may not??? I know many people who love the book and used it with their children. It worked for me and I don't know what my life, with small babies, would have been like without it!
I am late with this one. The camper looks very nice. I know you will love it.
I know for a fact you are a great Mom. Have fun camping this weekend, wish I could be there, wait no I don't, my cabin with AC and shower hasn't been built yet. Are you still working on saying Aunt Carlyn with Titus? I know you have nothing better to do so get to it. :)
Love ya,
Carlyn
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